MySwipey · the builder's handbook · under two minutes

Design her look, personality and voice. Every detail yours.

Choose realistic or anime, then set her body, hair and eyes, mix a personality, pick a voice and set the opening scene. Every detail stays editable. Building is free, for adults 18+.

Create your AI girlfriend The 7 steps

Step one

Design her look.

RealisticPhotoreal, same face every render
AnimeExpressive and stylised, drawn to your spec
Body typeHairEyesSkin toneOutfit
Realistic vs anime

Step two

Define her personality. Any mix.

Flirty
Dominant
Shy
Intellectual
Nurturing
16 archetypes with sample lines

Step three

Pick the voice you'll hear on every call.

Calm and low suits shy or nurturing characters, bright suits flirty ones, and measured suits intellectual ones. Judge it with the ten-minute test rather than the three-second preview.

Voice messagesReal-time callsEditable anytime
How to choose her voice

Step four

Set the scene. Then the story starts.

Decide where she is and what is happening when the first message arrives. Pick from 100+ scenarios with plot memory, or write your own with the four-fact formula of place, situation, want and how you met.

The NeighbourThe LayoverThe DetectiveThe Transfer Student
25 backstory templates

Edit My AI

Change anything. Keep the memory.

Look, personality, voice and scenarios are editable any time in Edit My AI. Memory and relationship levels survive every edit, and images stay character-consistent with whatever you set.

What you can changeSame face, every render

Yours

Fully private. Fully yours.

Custom characters are private by default and stay that way unless you choose to publish one to the Creator Community. Swipey states that conversations are encrypted in transit and at rest and that your data is never sold.

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Two minutes.
Exactly her.

Free to build, realistic or anime, for adults 18+.

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The builder's handbook

Every option in Create AI explained, plus archetypes, templates and the traps, so the two minutes you spend building her are the right two minutes.

What MySwipey is

MySwipey is the builder's handbook for Swipey AI. It covers every option in Create AI, what each one changes downstream, 16 personality archetypes, 25 backstory templates, how character consistency works, and how to edit her later without losing memory.

The site is operated by INVAI LTD, the company behind Swipey AI. Feature descriptions come from the live builder and Swipey's own pages, with the date of the last check at the top of each guide. Last verified 25 September 2026.

Swipey AI, defined

Swipey AI is an AI companion platform where adults create and chat with a fully customizable virtual girlfriend, realistic or anime, with persistent memory, voice calls and voice messages in both directions, character-consistent images, on-demand video up to 60 seconds, ten relationship levels with reward drops, a hearts reward economy with quests and a 7-day streak, Verified Creator Models with Fanclubs, Group Chat, a Creator Community where members publish the characters they build, and Swipey Live Fantasy Duels. It runs in the browser on any device, is free to start, and Premium costs $7.99 a month.

Frequently asked questions

How do I create my own AI girlfriend?

Open Create AI on Swipey AI, choose realistic or anime, design her look (body, hair, eyes, skin tone, outfit), set a personality mix, pick a voice, add a location and scenario, and start chatting. It takes under two minutes, creation is free, and you sign up with an email, a Google account or a magic link.

Can I choose her personality and voice?

Yes. Personality is a mix of flirty, dominant, shy, intellectual and nurturing in any proportion, and the voice is chosen at creation and used for her voice messages and real-time calls, which are Premium features. Since 17 September 2026 you can send voice messages back. Both are editable later in Edit My AI without losing memory.

Realistic or anime?

Either. The style you choose at creation decides how every image and video renders, and it cannot be swapped on the same character. Chat, memory, voice and relationship levels are identical in both. If you are undecided, build one of each; creation is free.

Can I change her after I create her?

Yes, at any time through Edit My AI: look, personality mix, voice and scenarios. Custom scenarios arrived in Edit My AI on 27 August 2026. Memory and relationship levels persist through every change, so she remembers you and simply looks or behaves differently. A character published to the Creator Community can no longer be edited.

Will she look the same in every photo?

Yes. Swipey AI's image generation is character-locked, which it describes as same face, same body, every render. The lock holds across selfies, photo-to-video and on-demand video scenes up to 60 seconds, and a pencil icon lets you edit an image in place without changing her design.

Is my custom AI private?

Yes, private by default. Swipey states conversations are encrypted in transit and at rest and that data is never sold or shared with third parties. Publishing is opt-in. Since 23 September 2026 Premium members with a linked Discord account can submit a character to the Creator Community, where the Swipey team reviews it. Publishing is permanent.